“When I get paid I buy books……”

I once read a quote that said “When I get paid I buy books, and if there is money left over I buy food”.  At the time, I was in the Navy in Guam.  Rather than hang out with the military folk, I would spend hours at the bookstore, spending most of my paycheck on books that interested me.  When I finally left the island, I had more boxes of books to ship than clothes!

My husband loves books too.  He could spend a whole Saturday at the bookstore, and visits Amazon.com at least once a week.  Because of our obsession, our house has more books than anything, more than can even fit on the shelves.  I tell my husband we need to buy more bookcases, but when we do, it gives me reason to buy more books.

I think for this reason, my kids have always loved books too.  Just like the rest of the house, the majority of their space in their room is filled with books.  I stock up at the thrift store, buying books that my kids can grow into, the same way I buy their clothes.

We started reading to the kids when they were just babies, board books and cloth books at first.  They would focus on the shiny shapes on the page, or chew on the edges.  As they grew, their interest moved to the pictures, and then on to the words.

My daughter, now almost 7, is reading in spanish and english on her own.  She still likes me to read her familiar picture books and point out what the characters are doing in the story.  I am so proud to hear from her teacher that she is reading above grade level and likes to read to the other kids in class.  At some point every day, she pulls a pile of books off the shelf, to browse through and read.  Sometimes they make it back on the shelf, most days they don’t.  But I don’t mind.  I’m just happy she is choosing to read on her own.

My son, about to turn 1o, is a similar story.  Like his sister, he can read in Spanish,  but prefers to read in English when offered a choice. He can be found, throughout the day, engrossed in a book.  He likes to spend his recess time reading in the classroom, or reading at a bench on the playground.  He started with Captain Underpants comic style books, and has moved on to the Lightning Thief series, which has inspired his new interest in Greek Mythology.

This weekend, while my husband studied his computer programming textbook, my son came into the room.  Checking out the title, he asked his dad if he could read the textbook when my husband was finished.  If my son’s brain is anything like my husband’s, he could do amazing things with computers.  We are now on a mission to find a text that is simple enough for him to start learning programming!

That’s the power of reading.  It can open your world up to an unlimited amount of possibilities.  If you can dream it, there is probably a book about it out there somewhere, just waiting for you to explore it.

Celebrate America Reads month with your family!  Stop by the thrift store and stock up, or pull that book off the shelf you have been meaning to read.  Start reading a classic to your kids at bedtime.  We like to read a chapter every night before bed.  If you live in Southern California, try Island of the Blue Dolphins.  It is based on the lives of the native people of the Channel Islands.  After reading that book, we took the kids on a camping trip to Santa Cruz Island, and the kids swore it was the Island of the Blue Dolphins!

What are your kids wearing for Halloween? Rethinking masks and face paint

Halloween masks and face paint are common tools to transform kids into zombies, witches and other characters every Halloween. But something even creepier: kids may be unknowingly wearing PVC plastic or spreading harmful substances on kids’ vulnerable skin.

A new report released by the Campaign for Safe Cosmetics found heavy metals present in Halloween face paint often used on children. Lead, a powerful neurotoxin, was found in every face paint product the Campaign tested. Many of the products also contained nickel, cobalt and chromium, potent allergens that can cause lifelong skin problems.

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Additionally, many Halloween masks and costumes are sometimes made out of PVC, the poison plastic, which can leach harmful gender-bending phthalates. In recent years, a growing body of scientific evidence has found that toxic chemicals released by the PVC lifecycle are trespassing into our bodies — phthalates are highest in children ages 6 to 11. When shopping for Halloween masks and costumes, look for those labeled “PVC-free” and if you are not sure, ask the store clerk or manufacturer whether the mask or costume is made out of PVC or vinyl.

(source: http://www.chej.org)


Face Paint and Halloween Makeup

To avoid heavy metals and other potentially harmful unknown ingredients in traditional Halloween face paint, try making your own using food-based ingredients. Remember, foods can cause allergies in some kids: always test your concoctions on a small patch of skin and read up on natural food colorings before sending your little ghouls out for a night of painted fun. And don’t forget that some foods can stain skin and clothes.

Face Paint Made with Natural Food Coloring

Natural food coloring is available at health food stores and typically derived from foods and spices. We recommend reading up about natural food colorings and potential allergies first. Do not substitute conventional food coloring, which may contain synthetic chemical ingredients.

Ingredients:
-Base of safe, unscented lotion (search Skin Deep for safe options) OR pure cocoa butter (available at health food stores) OR safe, mild toothpaste (avoid mint flavors, as they can make skin tingly)
-Natural food coloring (see note above)

Instructions:
Mix a few drops of natural food coloring into the base ingredient of your choice. Test on a small patch of skin before applying to face or body.

Face Paint Made with Food

Make sure young children understand they can’t eat these paints unless you make them without the base. Test a small patch of skin first to make sure your child isn’t allergic to the food you’re using.

Ingredients:
-Base of safe, unscented lotion (search Skin Deep for safe options) OR pure cocoa butter (available at health food stores) OR safe, mild toothpaste (search Skin Deep; avoid mint flavors, as they can make skin tingly)
-Turmeric, raspberries, blackberries, blueberries, beets, avocado, spirulina, cocoa, chocolate sauce, squid ink or other colorful foods, juices, herbs and spices

Instructions:
Yellow: Add 1/4 tsp. and a large pinch of stale turmeric to base.

Pink: Using a sieve, mash the juice from 3 fresh or thawed frozen raspberries, blackberries or beets directly into the base. Or, use a deeply colored berry juice or puree.

Mint green: With a fork, mash 1/4 of a small avocado until creamy. Mix this into your base.

Emerald green: Add small amount spirulina or bright green chlorophyll to base.

Purple: Using a sieve, mash the juice from several fresh or frozen blueberries into the base. Or, use blueberry juice.

Brown: Add cocoa powder or chocolate sauce to base.

Black: Use a small amount of squid ink in base for true black.

White: Mix powdered sugar and water.

(source: http://safecosmetics.org/article.php?id=233#halloween)

Don’t let them close our state parks!

This last weekend, for Father’s Day, my family and I took a hike at Topanga Canyon State Park.  It was our first time visiting this park and we are in love!!  Lovely view of the ocean from the top, lush green canyons, tons of wildlife, fresh air and wide open space!

And now I hear that because of the budget cuts, they want to close parks like this one.  Yep, that is exactly what we need in SoCal, less open spaces, one less place to go to get out of the city madness.  It’s hard enough on our kids(and us) to be so separate from nature, surrounded by concrete and people all day, everyday.  Getting outside, into nature will be a whole other stress.  But we do have some power, to make our voices heard.

People were out taking action this weekend, people like you and I, taking to the streets, well, parks, and getting signatures for a petition.  Us, as individuals, can make a difference.  I know living in one of the largest cities in the world, a person can begin to feel very small, insignificant, and jaded.  But all of us, coming together, can make changes!

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http://www.kpbs.org/news/2009/jun/22/groups-rally-state-parks/

Do it now, before it’s too late!

Mama holiday

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I am taking the week off from all parental responsibilities.  I was filled with both excitement and anxiety, as I prepared myself and family for a week without me.  I knew my husband could handle it and would take care of the kids, but never actually been assigned the task before, I was nervous how things would go.  But wanting the break so bad, I prepared them the best I could, stocking the fridge and freezer, planning playdates, contacting both the school and the kid’s teachers, and talking with the kids about how it would be.  I felt I had set it up, so all he had to do was show up and follow the plan.

I left at midnight, Sunday night, planning to arrive to my sister’s house around nine in the morning.  The drive was easy and without any hitches.  Nervously, I called around the time the kid’s should be getting up and ready for school.  They were surprisingly already up and dressed, with good attitudes.  My husband reported a little crying from my youngest, as she is still mama’s girl and was sad to know she wouldn’t be able to cuddle with me for a whole week.

My sister and I have been making up for lost time, hanging out, talking, and visiting the desert sites.  At moments, my concern for my family creeps in.  I call to check in and things are running smoothly.  The kids are arriving to school earlier than they had been when I was taking them, and being picked up on time.  They have even made trips to the park before bedtime.  The husband reports feeling more productive than he has in a long time.  I like the change!  Maybe I should go away more often!!  It makes for a much more relaxed vacation.

I have a couple more days, before I have to head back.  Trying to get in as much quality time as possible, we have been staying up late and doing things we couldn’t do with kids.  I’m actually glad to have a few hours of down time when she heads to work every morning.  I get to sleep in, spend some time writing, and explore the small desert town she lives in.   I feel fortunate to have this time to spend with my sister, and to spend on my own.  It’s a little pre-birthday treat to myself, funded in part by my family and sister.  Happy Birthday to me.  I couldn’t imagine a better birthday present!  I live a pretty good life.